
Boston Venue Spotlight: Boston Public Library Microweddings
While the Boston Public Library is known for their luxury weddings and gala events, they created an accessible microwedding experience that’s perfect for these financially turbulent times. Their 1-hour ceremony experience was a hit ever since they launched during the summer of 2022 and it’s only growing in popularity!
Instead of getting married at City Hall, many Bostonians are choosing this affordable yet iconic option. For $200, you, your partner, your officiant, photographer, and 12 guests have access to the Guastavino Room.

How To Get a Park Permit for a NYC Park Elopement
Are NYC parks the new IT place to tie the knot?! We definitely think so. NYC parks have been THE outdoor wedding ceremony destination all year long for as long as we’ve officiated ceremonies and it’s only grown in popularity since COVID! But how do you do it? Can you just show up and get married or do you need a park permit?
Well, that all depends on where you’re getting married, what time of year, and how many people will be attending. For example, Central Park is the most popular NYC park to get married in especially during spring and fall seasons so if you want to get married in one of their iconic locations like Ladies Pavilion or Cop Cot, you’ll definitely need a park permit regardless of how many people will be joining you.

Brooklyn Venue Highlight: Carroll Hall Microweddings
Carroll Hall is a one-of-a-kind wedding venue in our beloved Brooklyn, offering a rare blend of nature and sustainable design that will blow your mind at every turn. From their colorful mosaic murals to their secret garden treehouse, you’ll wonder if you’re even in Brooklyn anymore. A microwedding at Carroll Hall offers couples the perfect blend of intimacy and style without compromising on the full experience of a beautifully curated wedding.

Sliding Scale Wedding Officiant Services: Our Commitment to Inclusivity
At Once Upon a Vow, we believe that love is for everyone, regardless of income, background, or identity. We understand that wedding ceremonies are a deeply personal and meaningful experience but for many, the cost can be a barrier.
As part of our mission to make love and commitment accessible to all, we are proud to offer Sliding Scale Wedding Officiant Services for couples who identify as part of marginalized communities.

How to Choose the Perfect Wedding Officiant: A Step-by-Step Guide
Now that you’re thinking of your wedding ceremony, it’s time to choose the right wedding officiant for your wedding day! This will be one of the most important decisions you’ll make while planning your wedding. Your officiant sets the tone for the ceremony and the rest of the day, playing a crucial role in making your day a beautifully memorable one. Whether you’re planning a large celebration or an intimate elopement, your officiant’s personality, style, and approach to your ceremony will impact your entire wedding experience.

8 Underrated Pop Culture Wedding Ceremony Readings
The wedding world is full of moving wedding ceremony readings to include in your own wedding ceremony. You’ve likely searched for something that fits your personalities and come across a lot of classics. Since you found your way here, we wanted to shine a light on some of our favorite pop culture monologues that would make incredible wedding ceremony readings.

Winners of The Knot’s Best Of Weddings and Wedding Wire Couple’s Choice 2025 Awards
We, at Once Upon A Vow, are pleased to announce that we have been selected as a 2025 winner of The Knot Best of Weddings and Wedding Wire Couple’s Choice Awards. This marks the ninth consecutive year that Once Upon A Vow has been named as The Knot Best of Weddings and Wedding Wire Couple’s Choice award winner. YAY!!! This accolade represents the top local NYC and Boston wedding professionals as reviewed by real couples on The Knot and Wedding Wire, all-in-one wedding planning resource websites offering a comprehensive suite of digital tools to help couples throughout their planning journey.

Your Wedding, Your Choice ALWAYS
At Once Upon A Vow, we’re all about CHOICE. We fundamentally believe that we all possess free will and we value our ability to make our own decisions. We heavily credit our American identity for this; of course, as you can imagine, the rolling back of our rights in the U.S. as well as the political ick and general mid vibes over the past 10 years has had us feeling all kinds of conflicted and demoralized.

How to Legally Prepare For A Trump Administration
Like many of you, we are concerned (to say the least) about the chaos that will undoubtedly ensue when Trump takes office. AGAIN! We are especially concerned for our undocumented immigrant and LGBTQIA+ communities. We, at Once Upon a Vow, stand with every single one of you who are trying to figure out how to best brace for this impending future.
Because of the outright threat to marginalized communities, especially immigrant and LGBTQIA+ communities, we are sharing a few recommendations to help guide you. Fair warning, it’s a lot of paperwork.

Free Marriage License Signings for Immigrant and LGBTQIA+ Couples Before Trump Returns
If you’re worried about what the next administration has in store for you and your partner, it may be time to legally get married. To support immigrant and LGBTQIA+ communities, we are offering free marriage license signings and a 20% discount for elopement ceremonies in Boston, New York City, and New Jersey.

Your Wedding Ceremony Matters
If you don’t want your wedding ceremony to be this boring, uncomfortable, stiff experience that you have to get through, you’ll prioritize your wedding ceremony. If you do want a wedding ceremony that feels genuine to you, you’ll find a wedding officiant that tells your story with the warmth of a good friend. If you want a wedding ceremony that makes you feel comfortable even if the thought of being the center of attention makes you uncomfortable, you’ll choose a wedding officiant who gets you.

Wedding Officiants for Kamala Harris
We have a few things in common with Vice President Harris. We too are first generation children of hard-working immigrant parents who raised us with strong community-centered values and a deep-seated love of family. Plus, we’re wedding officiants! So when we remembered that she officiated her step-son’s wedding, we found one more thing in common with our future Madam President.

What’s Your Ceremony Vibe?
With that in mind, it’s important for us to get an idea of your vibe so we can reflect that back to you on your wedding day. After all, your wedding ceremony will be the first shared experience for your guests so ideally this milestone moment in your lives is a true representation of you and your love.

Megan + Nicole’s Intimate Brooklyn Grange Wedding
This summer we celebrated three couples during our fifth annual Pride Grows in Brooklyn event, which is our annual wedding and event services giveaway for queer folx planned and executed by a diverse group of progressive, socially conscious, and impact driven wedding pros.
Three Tips for an Engaging Bilingual or Multilingual Wedding Ceremony
Many bilingual or multilingual partnerships wonder how they can plan a wedding that seamlessly connects all their loved ones to the joyful personal touches throughout. We definitely don’t want the abuelitas and aunties to feel left out, ESPECIALLY during the wedding ceremony.
Since we are increasingly becoming a multicultural, multilingual world, it’s so important to find ways to blend your culture, your roots, and of course your language to honor the beautiful corners of the world that made you who you are. Trust us, it’s also incredibly important for your guests! Alongside other multilingual wedding vendors, we spoke to Love Inc. magazine to share our two cents about planning a bilingual or multilingual wedding.

Camille and Douglas’ Brooklyn Bridge Vow Renewal Elopement
Camille and Douglas traveled all the way from Virginia to have their destination vow renewal on NYC’s iconic Brooklyn Bridge for their five year wedding anniversary on July 28th, 2023! Since they were planning a wedding out of state, they wanted to make the planning process a lot easier and chose our Candid Love wedding experience that includes photography and officiant services.

Date Your Wedding Vendors
Your wedding day is an investment in a meaningful moment, in heartfelt memories, in deep connection among loved ones! Whether you’re eloping or having a luxury wedding, this is a momentous day so you’ll want to make sure you hire a team you trust. It should go without saying, but it’s incredibly important to vibe with the wedding vendors you hire. Especially the ones who are present on your wedding day, the ones who set the tone!

Dave and Sarah’s Handsome Hollow Wedding
Dave and Sarah were married on Saturday, July 13th, 2024 surrounded by ferns, maple trees, and loved ones on the picturesque grounds of Handsome Hollow, a gorgeous hidden gem in upstate New York. While Dave and Sarah are city dwellers, the Catskills holds a special place in their hearts as it has become the site of annual camping trips during their almost 9-year journey together.

Do’s and Don’ts of Writing Wedding Vows
We’re not usually ones to share a Do’s or Don’ts list since we believe wedding days are YOUR day to celebrate as you see fit. However, we were asked to share digestible advice and figured we’d share our two cents.

Unconventional Wedding Vow Advice
Most couples are under the impression that they have to escape to their own corners and secretly write their wedding vows until the grand reveal on their wedding day. This approach may work for some but for many partnerships, one or both nearlyweds may find the act of writing a bit scary. Let alone writing your own personal wedding vows to share among your loved ones!